I‘ve been with my boyfriend for several years and the relationship is great in most ways. Before me, he’d never had a long-term partner, only casual s ex and has slept with nearly a hundred women. He watches a lot of adult movies and at least once a day. However, he has lost interest in s ex with me. He looks at other women a lot, even when he is with me. He’s adamant he loves me, finds me attractive and would never cheat. He says the problem is because he associates s ex with the ‘thrill of the chase’. Do we have any hope for a future? I’m in my 30s and would like to start a family.
I often wish that I had a crystal ball to see into the future. Although in this case I don’t need one and nor do you. Because you already have the ability to decide whether this relationship is right for you – and to end it, if it’s not.