When it comes to the issue of marriage and who to get married to, it is easy to get caught up and sidetracked about all the emotional issues. Then there is the issue of physical attraction, but we all need to take a break and realize that as Christians, marriage is for the long haul and there are No emergency exits. When we come to terms with this reality it is then easier to get past the emotional and physical issues and start looking at the real issues.
These questions will make you reflect on the real-longer term issues, lets get this straight nobody is perfect, we are as it were “under construction”, but the real issue bedeviling marriages today is that most people enter these marriages without being aware of their partners imperfections.
Answering these questions will give you an overview of what to expect from your intended, her personality type and her dispositions.
How does she show submissiveness in the family and congregation?
What does her manner of dressing indicate?
Who are her friends?
What is her attitude towards money?
What are her goals?
Is she now working towards those goals?
What type of entertainment does she enjoy?
How does she demonstrate her love for God?
Assets
Is she industrious?
Is she financially responsible?
Does she honor her parents?
Danger Signs
Is she jealous and self centered?
Is she contentious?
Is she verbally or physically abusive?
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